There comes a time when the person you once were no longer aligns with who you’re becoming. It isn’t an identity crisis; it’s simply an evolution. Change is inevitable, but are we open to it? As we grow, our beliefs, relationships, and interests may shift. Instead of holding onto the past, it’s important to step into the person we’re becoming.
Embrace Change
Imagine wearing shoes that don’t fit. It is very uncomfortable to walk in them. As we begin to evolve, the things that were once comfortable no longer fit us. When you think about who you are today, what doesn’t fit you any longer? How has holding on to it caused you discomfort? There is discomfort that comes with avoiding change. Your life becomes painfully unfulfilling. But when you embrace change, you step into something better.
Live Authentically
Why do we wear uncomfortable shoes? We might because of their appearance or how others perceive us when we wear them. It’s kind of the same with life. We resist change because we’re afraid of how people will react. We worry about hearing things like, “You’re not the person you used to be,” or “You’ve changed.” But, personal growth often requires us to evolve in ways that challenge others’ expectations of us. When you let go of what others think of you, you make space to live more authentically.
Release Old Beliefs
Some shoes are outdated and no longer fit the current era. Similarly, our old beliefs may no longer align with the person we’ve become. Instead of holding on to outdated ideas, it’s important to embrace new beliefs that reflect who we are today. Letting go of old beliefs can be challenging but essential for personal growth. What old beliefs are you ready to release? What new beliefs reflect the person you’ve become? By reflecting on these questions, you can discover which beliefs better serve the person you are today.
Own Your Choices
What we once enjoyed may no longer suit who we are today. As we get older, our interests and desires change. We might find that staying in and relaxing is more fulfilling than going to a party. Or it might be the opposite. We might find that we want to be more outgoing because we enjoy spending time with others. Sometimes, this shift occurs because we are no longer afraid to embrace what feels right for us. We become more confident in our choices because we know what brings us happiness.
Stand In Who You Are
Who we are today may not be who we were yesterday. But are we truly willing to embrace this new version of ourselves? Doing so often means letting go of others’ expectations, outdated beliefs, and past interests. It may feel uncomfortable, but it’s a necessary step toward personal growth.