Self-compassion is a concept I once misunderstood. I thought that by being kind to myself, I was being dishonest about how great I was. But I soon realized that denying my greatness was not being honest either. In this post, I want to share what self-compassion is and is not. I encourage you to practice […]
What Have You Learned This Year?
This year has flown by fast, and while I look forward to the new year, I appreciate all that 2024 has taught me and given me. I hope with the new year approaching, you will take some time to reflect on this past year. The year 2024 has been transformative. I want to share how […]
How to Have Joy During the Holidays?
Although the holidays tend to be the happiest time of year for me, I recognize that, for some people, this time can bring sadness—from grief to seasonal depression. The holidays are not a joyful time for everyone, and I want to take a moment to say that however you feel, it is valid. It is […]
What Dating Advice Do You Find Helpful?
While I enjoy watching dating shows for entertainment, I’ve learned to also watch for relationship advice. One piece of advice I liked came from Married at First Sight, where the concept of “growing in love” was introduced. It made me realize that love isn’t something you fall into; it’s something you can grow into. This […]
What Story Are You Telling Yourself?
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. I find myself stuck in the past, and I recognize that it is a sign of unhealed trauma. I told myself stories that exacerbated the pain. I realize that I have the power to change the storyline. I can write a story with a good ending. I can write a […]
What Self-Care Practices Do You Have?
I came across a quote that I liked. It says self-care is not a luxury. It is a necessity. You cannot afford to not take care of yourself. Like a car, neglect can lead to a breakdown. The role of self-care is to keep your tank full so that you can function at your highest […]
How Compatible Are You with Someone?
One reason some relationships last while others fade is because of compatibility. While physical attraction might spark the connection, it isn’t enough to sustain a long-term relationship. Equally important are shared values, long-term goals, humor, acceptance, and open communication. Being compatible in these areas can be instrumental in maintaining long-lasting relationships. Physical Attraction The attraction […]
What Stage Is Your Relationship In?
Singles anticipating a new relationship might fantasize about the honeymoon stage, but there are many stages of relationships. Navigating each stage of love can make or break a couple. Not everyone makes it to the final stage, which is essentially a commitment to spending life together. Here are the stages of relationships. The Honeymoon Stage […]
How to Reparent Yourself?
Your childhood plays a crucial role in shaping who you become as an adult. Your experiences during these years shape your beliefs, behaviors, and self-worth, with your relationship with your parent playing a key role in how you view yourself. Unfortunately, if you didn’t have parents who provided guidance, love, and protection, you may carry […]
What Does Emotional Safety Mean to You?
When it comes to feeling safe in relationships, it goes beyond physical protection. Emotional safety is another important factor in building healthy relationships. It is about being accepted, validated, and understood. An emotionally safe relationship has open communication, empathy, boundaries, trust, honesty, and vulnerability. Open Communication Communication is the foundation of building emotional safety in […]