Category: Self Discovery

Growing up, I idolized my older sister. She was a talented piano player who introduced me to Beethoven when I was a child. In my eyes, she represented the person I wanted to become, which sparked my interest in learning to play the piano. However, I never played as well as she did, and this […]

We have life only for a moment, but the impact we make can last forever. When I was 8 years old, I heard Martin Luther King Jr.’s I Have a Dream speech in class. It took me many years to understand the power behind his words. While he passed away many decades ago, his dream continues […]

For some people, staying busy is a way to avoid uncomfortable emotions. We all cope differently, and sometimes it’s easier to externalize what we’re not ready to face internally. How many of us would slow down if we felt more comfortable with difficult feelings? If we learned to sit with our emotions instead of running […]

On April 6th, I gave birth to a dream I had carried for years. Starting a blog was something I had wanted for a long time, but first, I needed the perfect name. Like many parents naming a newborn, I struggled to find the right name. After going through many names, I finally found one […]

It’s often easier to focus on what others owe you. But what do you owe yourself? This question invites you to look inward and reflect on your needs. If something as small as a plant has several needs, then how much more do you need? Fulfillment begins with self-awareness and a commitment to your emotional […]

We all have emotions. While we might find it easy to embrace emotions like happiness and excitement, it is important that we don’t avoid emotions like sadness, anger, or frustration. Instead of labeling emotions as positive or negative, it might be more helpful to see them as signals. We need these signals to navigate throughout […]

For some people, being liked is more important than being who they are. For others, being themselves is more important than being liked. It is difficult to remain authentic when you’re concerned with being liked. This mindset can get you stuck in the approval trap. Not everyone will like you, and that’s okay. Instead of […]

There comes a time when the person you once were no longer aligns with who you’re becoming. It isn’t an identity crisis; it’s simply an evolution. Change is inevitable, but are we open to it? As we grow, our beliefs, relationships, and interests may shift. Instead of holding onto the past, it’s important to step […]

Have you ever heard a voice in your mind say, “You’re not good enough”? I know this thought can be extremely harmful when you say it out loud, but this is often a belief that people develop from past trauma. Unfortunately, many people, including myself, allow this belief to become our identity. Trauma has a […]

I listened to two podcasts this week: one with Tina Knowles and another with Michelle Obama. Although they are different women, they both share a common theme. Both talked about not realizing their self-worth until much later in life. These are accomplished women, well into the second act of their lives, yet they only recently […]